Should anyone know of a better site, I too would like to know where.
The chat room is not needed, I believe. If anyone wished to live chat, they can list their AIM, Yahoo, MSN or their e-mail address the site will show if you are online and wish to be fnema. I like the way this site self polices it's self.
Enemq you find something that has no business being posted, flag it and the moderator will review it. Members are respectful, subject stays on topic, and there's lots of participation.
As for chat, I really prefer to do that one on one, not in a group cchat. I have met a of nice chat friends through this site, and some of the chats have been about things that we would not have felt comfortable discussing in a chatroom personal chat girls maydena and issues and such.
In other words, the way it is works just fine for me.
Posting about my private activities leaves me feeling safe and without remorse.